I know. I have been away too long, I know! It has been crazy for the past weeks…errr…months for me. But I am here now and I thought that there is no better way to get back on track than to look back at the year that was.
Our 2015 did not start quite as well as I hoped it would. We were beset with illnesses and loss of dear ones. We were in grief and sadness with Lolo Manny’s passing and still miss him a lot; but we have come to terms that he is already in a better place.
February was a happier month as we saw family and friends who visited from the States. This month was filled with a lot of get-togethers and reunions.
We got the biggest surprise of our lives as March rolled in and found out that I was infanticipating! The initial shock that got to me was soon replaced by eagerness and excitement for our newest blessing 😊.
We also celebrated a milestone this month as F graduated from grade school, with an award for perfect attendance to boot! It was indeed a proud mommy moment for me!
We welcomed summer with F‘s first out of town football tournament. La Salle decided to field a DLSZ-LSGH contingent to the NOFA Cup and F was one of those chosen to play. It was our first time in Bacolod so aside from the football, we also made sure to try the delectable food that this province has to offer.
I took my core leave in May so I can spend more bonding time with the kids but our plans were interrupted by a spotting scare. I had to go on bedrest which meant missing out on our Laiya beach getaway with my mom and siblings 😢. This month, I also had to deal with domestic concerns with our household staff that added stress to my already challenging state. But it’s true what they say that character will be tested during difficult times. Despite the challenges we experienced on the homefront, I am truly grateful that my kids responded well and showed maturity beyond their age. I feel very fortunate and blessed to have such caring and responsible children.
By June, F & S were raring to go back to school. We had a new set of helpers and a few changes in our routine so we had to adapt to these changes in our household. On my end, I am also happy to go back on work mode again.
July greeted us with sad new that our trusted helper (whom we’ve already considered as family) lost her battle with cancer. It was very difficult to accept, especially for F & S, who have grown very close to Ate Jojie. We were truly devastated with her passing but we had no choice but to accept it and just pray for her and the family she left behind.
August flew by without me noticing it as I got busy with work demands. But as September rolled in, I was ordered to go on medical leave by my doctor because I was experiencing premature labor. Thankfully, I work for a company which allows working from home. This way, I was able to continue being in touch with my team without getting out of bed.
As I reached the homestretch of my pregnancy, we were already doing weekly visits to my OB-Gyne and regularly monitoring the progress of Baby#3!
October was our most anticipated month! We celebrated S’s 10th birthday (has it really been a decade?!) with a simple party. She invited her classmates and gymnastics friends to an afternoon of clay art fun. It was a small party compared to the ones she had before but it was fun and enjoyable.
Of course, the highlight of this month… nay, YEAR…was welcoming our newest bundle of joy! From the moment I laid eyes on him, he has filled my heart with so much happiness! We are exhausted and somehow, still trying to adjust to our new routines, but nothing compares to the joy that we feel 😊.
With Baby J in tow, days and nights came and went with me taking very little notice. I stayed home most of the time taking care of our little one. Even before giving birth, I made a promise that I will try to do better in breastfeeding J than I did F & S. It is, by far, the hardest thing I had to do as a mother! But challenging as it was, I am happy to report that J is still 100% breastfed…3 months and counting! Yay! 😊
We celebrated F‘s 12th birthday in November. It was also J’s first month celebration (and marked the first time I stepped in the mall again after giving birth hehe).
December marked my 40th birthday. Prior to getting pregnant, I had every intention to hold a party with family and friends. It was a milestone birthday, after all, and it has been quite a while since I threw a party for myself. But with a breastfeeding baby (and so many sleepless nights since then), I opted for a quiet dinner out with my family instead. Maybe I’ll throw that birthday bash on my 41st instead…we’ll see 😜.
As expected, I missed most of the Christmas parties and shopping this year but I truly did not mind. I was happy to spend Christmas (and New Year) and celebrate with those who matters most.
2015 was indeed a roller coaster of emotions. For all the happy and sad moments, I am grateful.
This 2016 promises to be a whole new adventure, especially with F, S and Baby J and I look forward to sharing these with you too!